The Gilderdale Case: The Right To Die

Is there one law to be followed, if Britons assist their relatives to undergo suicide overseas and another to be applied when the assisted suicide takes place at home? That would seem to be one conclusion to be drawn from the Crown Prosecution Service’s prosecution on an attempted murder charge of a mother who provided a cocktail of drugs allowing her bedridden daughter to end her life.

The case of Kay Gilderdale, who was found this week by a Sussex jury not guilty of attempted murder, is a dismaying indication that the Director of Public Prosecutions, Keir Starmer, is unlikely to follow with consistency his own breakthrough guidelines on assisted suicide that he issued last year.

Yet again it remains unclear where people stand when it comes to assisting the terminally ill – or desperately sick – to end their suffering. Clarity is what Mr. Starmer offered with his guidelines but apparently they are not worth the paper they were written on for they do not clarify the situation but muddy it. What are we to make of such a harsh prosecution? Mrs Gilderdale wasn’t even prosecuted for assisting a suicide but was charged with the even graver offence of attempting murder.

When Mr Starmer unveiled his guidelines I for one applauded them. Three years earlier my mother, Barbara Dettmer, had committed suicide in Switzerland with the assistance of Dignitas, and the loving support of my sister, myself and our father.

My sister, Anne, and I remain furious that our mother was unable to end her life in her own home surrounded by family and friends but had to drag her pained and wrecked body to a foreign country to do as she wished. She had been virtually house-bound for years, had suffered greatly with no end to her pain in sight and she believed passionately that no one – governments or churches – had the right to tell her that she could not select the moment and means of her death (see earlier blog posting).

Along with the decades-long crucifying pain she suffered she was made by the law to go through another crucifixion — to seek death in a foreign country far from the familiar and from her husband of 55 years.

When Mr. Starmer issued his guidelines I wrote: “Despite his cautious wording and assurances that the law in England and Wales against assisted suicide has not changed, he has in effect advanced civil liberties when it comes to the right to die.” I did note I was troubled that the law itself hadn’t been altered and I highlighted the odd situation of having guidelines that in spirit and humanity pulled in one direction while the law against assisted suicide pulls in another. “That is a recipe for trouble down the road and there remains a lack of certainty. The guidelines could be changed later,” I warned.

I did not think the problem would come from Mr. Starmer, who gave the go-ahead for the prosecution of Mrs. Gilderdale. The DPP’s guidelines, which detailed when the UK authorities will prosecute a spouse, relative or friend who assists in a suicide, emphasised that a prosecution would be unlikely as long as those who assisted the suicide do not maliciously encourage the act of suicide or stand to profit and assisted only a “clear, settled and informed wish” to end life.

Mrs. Gilderdale had sought to dissuade her bedridden daughter, Lynn, from wanting to end life. She was a reluctant participant. But her 31-year-old daughter, who had been suffering from Myalgic Encephalomyelitis for 17 years and whose body was wrecked, was determined. She made her views clear both verbally and in writing – the writing took her weeks and months to pull off – that she had had enough.

“Imagine being imprisoned inside the miserable existence that is your life,” she wrote. “I don’t have to imagine that. My body and mind is broken. I am so desperate to end the never-ending carousel of pain and sickness and suffering. I love my family. I have nothing left and I am spent.”

Another passage from Lynn: “I really, really, really want to die and have had enough of being so sick and in so much pain every second of every day…This is something I have thought long and hard about…I’m sure it’s what I want. I have discussed and continued to discuss with my parents at great length. Although they obviously desperately don’t want me to go.”

The emphasis and focus of the Starmer guidelines were spot-on: the DPP stressed that he wanted to protect the vulnerable from manipulation or coercion or trickery. There was none of that involved in the suicide of Lynn – the prosecution showed no evidence to the contrary.

Under the guidelines Mrs. Gilderdale should not have even been prosecuted for assisting the suicide. Despite the fact she had pleaded guilty to assisted suicide, she was brought to court for attempted murder. A charge that irritated the trial judge, and two other judges previously who sought to persuade the CPS to cease prosecution. Mr. Justice Bean, who oversaw the trial, praised the jury for “common sense, decency and humanity” on acquitting Mrs. Gilderdale of attempted murder.

The guidelines were issued after the Law Lords backed in July a call from Debbie Purdy, who suffers from multiple sclerosis, for a policy statement on whether people who help someone commit suicide should be prosecuted. Purdy wanted a clear policy on whether her husband would be prosecuted for helping her travel to Switzerland to go through assisted suicide at a Dignitas clinic.

More than 100 Britons have ended their lives at Dignitas clinics, but, until the Starmer guidelines friends or relatives could not be sure whether they would face prosecution for assisting. Can they now, in the light of the Gilderdale prosecution? No prosecutions have been mounted of those who have helped Britons to commit suicide overseas. Hence the initial question of this posting: are you free from the dangers of prosecution, if it is an overseas suicide, but will face the full weight of prosecution, if the act takes place in the UK?

According to UK Conservative MP Ann Widdecombe, Mr. Starmer turned the Gilderdale case into a “showpiece” to promote the legalization of assisted suicide.  I don’t believe that Mr. Starmer is as Machiavellian as Mrs. Widdecome supposes – he could not know that the jury would acquit and I doubt he would have been as cruel as to risk the imprisonment of a woman he thought was innocent. No, what we have here is a mess and one that is going to add to the suffering of those who want to die.

3 thoughts on “The Gilderdale Case: The Right To Die

  1. You have no way of knowing that Lynn might not have become reconciled to her condition. I’m sorry for the pain that Mrs Gilderdale will now go through, especially as she didn’t want to kill her daughter, but assisted suicide is more about population control and eugenics than it is about compassion.

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  3. Thank you for your comment. Of, course, I disagree with it. Lynn took years to think about what she wanted and she suffered her condition for 17 years. I think she had the right to choose what she wanted rather than having other people decided for her or deciding that she might have changed her mind. For me, the moral and philosophical arguments in favour of assisted suicide far outweigh the counter-arguments. Compassion comes very much into it. My mother certainly wasn’t thinking about population control or eugenics when she decided to die. My family know all about eugenics — most of my ancestors were wiped out in the extermination camps of Germany and Poland by people who had mad ideas about such things. But as I said, I appreciate you sharing your views.

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